“I Had A Miscarriage Because My Ex-Husband Constantly Beats Me” Actress Chika Ike Cries

Now this doesn’t look good. Recently star actress Chika Ike joyfully went public with news of her successful divorce of her husband. The marriage was short, lasting all of 5 years. As expected, the backlash she received from fans and the general public was tremendous, with many disgusted by the celebratory tone in which she broke up their union. But I bet, not a lot of us knew the real reasons for her celebration. Well we do now, and it’s heartbreaking, to say the least. Ceaseless abuse, psychological trauma, and physical molestation were the norm in her life, and frankly, who wouldn’t want out when hell becomes real in matrimony?
In a land blessed with education, civilization and an abundance of intellect, it still sticks in our craw when we get stories of inhuman treatment like these.
Read Chika Ike’s touching story of her hellish marriage experience!

The past three years has been a very emotional period for me. I focused my energy on work and to build back my self-esteem. It’s been really hard for me to come out straight and talk about this because sometimes I pinch myself to wake up and not believe that I was a victim of domestic violence.
I’ve been through a lot in my life, faced a lot of challenges but this is one topic I’ve tried so hard to avoid and have been waiting for the right time but I have come to a resolve that there’s really no right time because every second of the day, lives are being lost due to domestic violence. I was a victim of domestic violence in my marriage and that was the singular reason I left my marriage, aside other reasons.
Growing up as a girl. I was always known as the sweetest kid on the block, before I got married, I have been through some relationships and for once no man had ever laid a finger on me.
The first time it happened in my marriage I didn’t understand it because I am not the type of woman a man beats but I guess there are no types. It just happens and no woman deserves it.
As a young girl I thought it was love or his way of expressing his emotions, after every beating he pleads , cries and says it won’t happen again, once again I thought it was love and made excuses for him. Over the years when it kept happening consistently I started looking for other definitions for it.
I started losing my self-pride, self-esteem , self-worth, and most painfully I lost a pregnancy (Miscarriage) I almost lost my life in the process, then I realized how serious and abnormal it really was.
I have heard and read a lot of accusations from ignorant people who don’t know my story. I guess that’s why they are ignorant. I was 20 years old and very naïve to the world when I got married. “They said I married for money“ LOL. I was married to a corporate guy, who had a 9am-5pm job in a bank, Lives in a rented 2 bedroom apartment at Egbe. So do the maths! .
I married for love. I did a traditional wedding, a white wedding and a court wedding. So that’s how much I wanted to be married forever. For five years I hoped, prayed & wished that one day it will all change. But the last straw that broke the carmel’s back was during a heated argument he threw a glass jug to my face and I dogged it and it shattered on d wall. I saw death flash before me and I made a decision to save my life. I left my marriage.
Am not saying this to draw pity from anyone because we are entitled to our opinions and believes. I am not also saying this to discourage people from falling in love because it’s a beautiful feeling and I still believe in it. I am saying this to educate, share and talk about my experience as a victim of domestic violence because it is real.